Some things are impossible to explain to those who are not ready to see them, no matter what you do or say they will not comprehend where you are coming from or where you might be going on your journey. Make peace with this and give up trying to prove your point to someone who is not willing to understand. Realizing that not everyone will care, agree or praise you takes a certain grace, maturity and level of acceptance which goes beyond what many of us have been taught to accept. Your decisions have to make sense for you, not anyone else. May this serve as a reminder that your choices shape your reality, your actions change your life.